My 14-year-old daughter saw me getting intimate

She encountered an absurd sound of me screaming while having intimacy with my husband. I was also talking about something which was somehow inappropriate for the girl who is 14 years old

My 14-year-old daughter saw me getting intimate
My 14-year-old daughter saw me getting intimate

I encountered a weird situation with my 14-year-old daughter as she saw me having sex with her father. My husband and I were firstly unaware that our daughter was struggling with a sense of absurdity and resultant.

However, we were trying to figure out the problem of our daughter as her behaviour toward us was not normal. I have wanted to ask her, but many times, she refused to respond to any of my questions. After some days, I again visited her room and tried to speak to her.

I have moulded my way and made her comfortable. I first thought she was facing some issues in her school, but after she confessed everything to me, I got confused and out of words.

The incident happened ten days before when my husband returned home from his job at the weekend. My husband has been working as a tour guide, and he used to visit home after 15 or 20 days. Like every time he returned home and after having lunch, we sent our daughter to bed in her room upstairs.

When we got assurance that our daughter had fallen asleep, we went to our room, which is downstairs. As I said, like every time, we both knew that we were going to have sex as it was after 20 days we were meeting.

We were both very excited and went to bed at 10: 00 pm.  I was having great thoughts and some nervousness in my mind. We went to bed and started the process. Everything was going with the flow and as usual.

But on that night, there was one thing that was neither normal nor usual. When we were having sex at midnight, our daughter suddenly woke up. She came downstairs seeking to sleep with us. However, our sounds of having sex stopped her from coming inside the room.

She encountered an absurd sound of me screaming while having intimacy with my husband. I was also talking about something which was somehow inappropriate for the girl who is 14 years old.

My daughter has watched some movies where intimacy between a couple is shown. From that, she got to know that her parents were having sex.

When my daughter was telling me about the incident, I was getting nervous and confused with my words. I got totally blank; what really do I have to say now?

My daughter said,” I heard you and Daddy in the bedroom; you kept screaming at him.” I replied to her,” Oh honey, those were happy sounds.”

My daughter said,” That didn’t sound happy, and then you punched the wall and again yelled.”

I replied,”Look honey, I and your daddy were playing a little grown-up game.” She said,” You played the game seven times.”

Therefore, the situation became quite awkward for me, but I regained myself and replied to my daughter, this is something you should be aware of at a particular age.

After that day, I have started giving sex education to my daughter.